Hi Karen, as a pre-op myself, hoping to be scheduled within the next 4-6 weeks, I cannot relate to your feelings firsthand. However, I do know about feeling depressed. Try to write down your thoughts and feelings right now, no matter how depressing they may seem. Some day soon I am sure you will look back and think "wow, I never realized how crummy I felt." You are very fortunate to have a loving and supportive husband. Let him pamper you awhile, and don't feel the least bit guilty! Hopefully you'll be able to go on short walks a couple times a day and the fresh air and sunshine will help you, as well as the exercise of course. Let us know how you feel once in awhile. It WILL get better soon, I am certain of that. God Bless - Anna