Hey girl! What you are enduring is normal. I had the slight nausea stuff on and off for a while. I got depressed, too. I am now almost 4 months post-op and everything has come together. In fact, after about 8 weeks, I was doing better, both physically and mentally. Email some of the post-ops if you need to ask questions, or use the question board. There are great resources here, plus a lot of shoulders to support you. You are going to do just fine. Wait until you try on a pair of pants that were too tight, and you realize you can't wear them- because they are too big!! Lots of Hugs, Nita