Hi Joanne - saw your post on the message board. Here's how I did it - I pulled up a list of all the WA state doctors by "find a doc" (and Oregon and Idaho) and printed it off. Then, one by one, I crossed off the ones I didn't want, and highlighted the ones on my insurance. Then I called each one to see if they were still with my insurance, how soon could I get a consult, and some other questions (one not too far away wants cash up front, and you take your changes on getting paid back by insurance - no thanks!)
I don't know where your town is (I'm in Walla Walla) but I know that the doctors at Rockwood Clinic in Spokane are good, and Dr. Simonowitz in the northwest corner is very good - know several people who used him.
Don't give up, you've got some hard work ahead of you, and you are worth it all!