Dragonfly33
I am 232lbs and have torn stomach muscles in my upper abdominal area and a hernia right below the belly button which is causing me issues on top of being overweight! I have back and neck problems.
I've had two c-sections which does not help and has created a fat pocket that's almost impossible to get rid of. I hate wearing jeans and my self confidence is at it's low!
My doctor has suggested weight loss surgery. It's scary to me because it's irreversible and I've known people to have problems. I care about my appearance so with that said I'm afraid of the excess skin problem that will be sure to follow. And I'm not sure which one is worse, the excess skin or being a little overweight as they both create self esteem issues. Which one looks worse than the other? And I know there's surgeries but that's all out of pocket and I'm not rich!
With all this being said I have a lot going thru my mind someone please help me! Lol ????
