HI MELANIE, I WANT TO SEND MY BEST WISHS TO YOU FOR YOUR SURGERY, AND SAY HOW SORRY I AM TO HEAR ABOUT YOU DAD. 75 IS A VERY GOOD AGE TO LIVE TO, I HOPE I MAKE IT THAT FAR,ESPECIALLY SINCE I AM GOING TO FEEL SO MUCH BETTER AFTER MY SURGERY ON THE 21ST OF THIS MONTH. DEATH IS NOT EASY, BUT IT ALSO IS NOT THE END.....HUGS ...SUSAN MCNEIL