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Jennine B. 23 years, 11 months ago

Jenper 23 years, 11 months ago

Hi, Jennine. Read your post and then your profile. I just wanted to tell you to not be so hard on yourself. We ALL make mistakes. We ALL make bad choices, bad decisions. It doesn't make you a bad person. If other people treat you badly, that's on them, not you. You don't DESERVE to be mistreated. My wish for you would be for you to wake up tomorrow, look yourself in the mirror and realize what an awesome, empowered woman you are. You have survived bad relationships, bad jobs, raising children, losing another person in weight and YOU'RE STILL HERE. You are stronger than you realize and my hope is that you grab that power to survive with both hands and take on your life like there's no tomorrow. None of us are guaranteed a tomorrow. Make today count as much as possible. If your husband doesn't appreciate you - it's HIS loss. Re-read your profile and I think you'll find that you haven't been happy with him for quite a while. Maybe (even though it stinks right now) this is just the thing you need to be free to live YOUR best life. Good luck to you and my thoughts are with you!!

Diane C. 23 years, 11 months ago

Hey Jennine! You were too much woman for him! Maybe your weight kept HIM secure?? Who knows, but one thing's for certain, you don't need that kind of person in your life. Let the nurse have him. YOU ARE MOVING ON TO BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS IN YOUR LIFE! God bless you and give you strength.

Kathy A C. 23 years, 11 months ago

Hi Jennine, Read your sad post and am truly sorry. I believe fate is there for a reason. You were not meant to stay with the "nurse man", and it is your destiny to leave him and get your kids squared away and get yourself a job. Pick yourself up. You are a WINNER in my book for all the accomplishments you have made, the struggles you have endured...ad you were so brave to save your life with WLS. Give yourself credit and stop beating yourself up. You could not help what your silly husband did. He is NO measure of YOUR validity in this world. There are many men out there who would LOVE to date and fall in love with you. You are a caring, giving, loving, talented, beautiful person. You need to release your anger over a lot of these issues and move on with your life. Get some help if you need to talk to a therapist. REMEMBER You are wonderful. Pull it together gal. I'm here if you need to talk. I am getting divorced right now myself for similar reasons... take care, HUGS from CT ...KathyA (& Spike the Wonder Pouch) :0)

blank first name B. 23 years, 11 months ago

Jennine, the man you "lost to a nurse" is the loser, NOT YOU!!! You are a brave soul!! I'm so stinkin' proud of you! I pray that you'll learn who you really are and will learn to LOVE HER!!!!

LORRAINE K. 23 years, 11 months ago

Dear Jennine~~~~Am thinking of you today. You are certainly not a loser. You are a strong, determined, brave woman who underwent WLS to save her life. May God inspire you to consider how you help yourself further everyday. Be well, be happy, be blessed.

Jodi D. 23 years, 11 months ago

{{{{{{{{{{HUGZ}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Michelle A. 23 years, 11 months ago

THERE ARE NOT MANY WORDS THAT ARE BETTER THEN A {{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}...SO I AM SENDING ONE YOUR WAY-MICHELLE

Sharon Neva 23 years, 11 months ago

JENNINE~~May the world hug you today, With its warmth, and love. Pray it whispers a joyful tune in your heart. And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend, sitting in another corner of the world, wishing you well!

Sharon L. 23 years, 11 months ago

You are not a loser all around, just in the weight department. You can live with someone for years and really never get to know them. I am sorry he bailed out on you just as your getting you new life. He is going to be the loser this time you are one sweet lady and deserve better. Time will make you feel better believe me. There is a life out there for you and one you deserve.