Lara C.

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Gillian V. 21 years, 2 months ago

It sounds like things didn't go as planned, but on the other hand, you are right; being home is something to be happy about. I have two friends that have both gone through the surgery and each one of them had drastically different experiences. However, one thing they both had in common was a good "support group" at home made up of supportive family and friends. That makes all the difference some days. I hope you continue to improve. Down the road, when you start feeling and seeing the results of the surgery, I am sure you will feel better about making that decision. Good Luck, and keep us all posted.

angela B. 21 years, 2 months ago

It sounds like you had a rough go of it. But that is all behind you, remember the reasons you did this in the first place. It's impotant to keep moving to build your strength- it's up to you to get better now. I know it's hard but it's important to stay positive. Leave your home to go to support groups and meet people face to face.

Lara C. 21 years, 2 months ago

Hi everyone. I am up for the first time in a while. On the 4th I had my surgery. It was decided that I would have a laproscopic (not my choice) surgery. Doc figured it would be easier on me. I came out of that pretty well. However, on the 5th I had to go under again to repair two leaks. That was all ok, although my husband said I was the color of death when I came out of the surgery and into my room. I was sent home on the 10th and back into the hospital on the 11th for fluid on my left lung. 19 days, 3 surgeries, and 3 chest tubes later, I am alive and kicking. I am now home and feeling ok. The recliner has become my best friend and I am eating food which is good. Would I do it again? The way I feel right now I can't say I would. I know I should be more positive but I am not sure it was (for me) what I would do again. I know I can't go back and I might change my mind and feel better about it later but for right now, I wish I would have never done it. I would rather be fat. Oh well. I am still alive so I guess it could be so much worse. I need to get back to laying down, I am getting tired. Take care everyone!! Thanks for listening....

Michelle D. 21 years, 3 months ago

From one Minnesotan to another, here's hoping you had an uncomplicated surgery & a speedy recovery! Way to start the new year!

Lara C. 21 years, 3 months ago

I am a little over 12 hours away from the time that I have to be to the hospital. I am feeling so many different feelings. Excitement, fear, happiness, and just wanting to get it over with. Thanks for everyone's comments here. It really does help!!! I will try to post in the morning but if I don't then I will talk to you all on the losing side!!!!! Hugs to all!!

Dakota Mom 21 years, 3 months ago

Best wishes on your surgery! May God be with you, your family, and your surgical team! I pray you have a quick recovery! :) Gail

LizL 21 years, 3 months ago

Good luck tomorrow Laura. I know that Dr. Benn & group will take the BEST care of you. They did my RNY on Dec 6th and it's been a breeze! See you on the loosing side!! L.

~Tooter - the Droopy Witch 21 years, 3 months ago

Just popping in to wish you a successful surgery and a rapid recovery. May luck follow you where ever your journey may lead you!! Hugs, Toots

Lara C. 21 years, 3 months ago

Oh my gosh.. I am getting so scared.. Am I going to be able to do this? Can I do it? What if it doesn't work? What if something happens? Ok, I know I am freaking myself out, but I certainly do appreciate all of the prayers and thoughts... This is about the only place I have to get support, so I appreciate all the help!!! I will let you know how I am doing as soon as I can... Lara

princesssplenda 21 years, 3 months ago

Your exciting day is fast approaching! I'm praying for the skilled hands of your surgeon to give you a surgery day with no complications. Keep us posted of your many successes on the losing side. Big (((((hugs))))) from my heart! Candy RNY 11/16/04