hey,good luck with your choice,in the begining i found my self debating wether i should have wls,the more i read the posting about how peoples life had changed it helped me with my choice.i tried to stay positive about the outcome. i am not a sickly person,and i have been blessed w/3 kids and all went fine w/no problems.so in my mind i was sure that all would go welland it also helped me to think that every thing happens for a reasonand if it was not ment to be i would not of got approved for wls.but i was and now i am 12 days post op and feel wonderful.good luck with your choice hope that all goes well.