Hi everyone.
I will let Ginger tell you about your experience but for those of you who wonder what the family goes through, I have an update.
Dave and Dawn went with Ginger to surgery. I received a call from Dawn to let me know that Ginger had come out of surgery. Dawn was very frightened, Ginger had some difficulty breathing and post surgery, was very pale. This really scared Dawn.
When I saw her on Saturday, she had been up and her color looked good but I could see that she was in tremendous pain despite the meds. Ginger never shows the extent of the pain she is in but when she fell asleep, her breathing "hitched" due to the pain. The pain had to be incredible to do that when you are asleep and on MORPHINE!
She is now home, and although we try to bug her as much as possible, I think her inactivity and post-surgical healing is making her unhappy. It's hard to go through all that pain and not see the results yet. I KNOW she is tired of jello and Crystal Light!
The most interesting person in the family has been Dave, my father in law. He is so frightened of the future. At first, he was so scared that something would happen to Ginger during surgery. Her difficulty breathing really made him upset but now that she is home, he grouses at her. I think that he really depends on Ginger's love and support and he is afraid of the brave new world Ginger is going to get to. MEN! You'd think he would be salivating at the thought!
Anyway, back to work, I did tell Ginger to update her status, thank you to all that sent me e-mails at home requesting updates. I will forward them to Ginger once I have the chance.
God Bless,
Mindy