In response to your message about your relatives being so immature about your weight... me personally, sometimes I can be a little vengeful. I'm sure not all of them are an ideal weight. I can be kinda cocky & jokingly things I have said in the past is the old phrase, I may be fat but at least I'm not ugly. And after you get to your goal weight, dare them to say something, then look at them and if it is a guy and he has alittle belly on him, say eating a couple more hot dogs these days? I know it's also immature, but it feels good to be on the other side and give 'em a dose of there own medicine...