I'd e-mail you but have a puter virus. I've got 6 sisters & every one of them has at some time or other said something that hurt my feelings & I'm sure I've done the same to them. Forgive her after you've talked with her & told her it hurt your feelings she thinks you took the easy way out. We all know how hard a decision this & how much work it takes to use this tool.(me, because I read your stories) She's probably hating all the weight she gained while pregnant & having a hard time losing it. If you live close to her suggest you walk together to help both of you get fitter & lose more weight, encourage her as she tries to lose the pregnancy weight. I'm sure it bothers her as much as your weight did you.. We all screw up & say things that hurt the ones we love. .