Hi Dana,
You are hardly a failure! I had my surgery in 3/03 as well and I have not lost as much weight as you! I, too have been eating candy, I know so terrible and I feel so bad about it every time I eat it, but I know that I can get away with 2 pieces so of course I eat it! I feel bad about it everytime, but those bad habits we had before surgery are still with us. I am trying to reach that century club but sometimes I think that I am sabbotaging myself. I don't know why???
I will pray for you and please pray for me. We just have to buckle down and get back on track!
Best wishes to you and God Bless!