Linda, best wishesand prayers for a problem free surgery and a speedy recovery. I know that the one week change of date seems major now, but in the long run, it won't make that much of a difference. The main thing is that it is going to happen and SOON! Do whatever you have to to avoid the stress of your mother-in-law (or any other stress for that matter) now and especially when you are post op. The less things your body has to deal with, the more it can focus on healing. I know, I know, easy enough for me to SAY huh? Just remember, this is for you, so do what you have to. I would imagine she will understand, or at least get over it, in the long run. Keep us posted on the IA message board. Elizabeth