Hi Brenda, good luck to you on your up coming surgery.I read your post bout eating a late night snack with your hubby,prior to my surgery my hubby said to me one evening,(baby Im going to miss going to get us a bannana split) its something we did quite often to be honest lol, so now while he has his icecream, I just find me a little something and we still sit together like we use too.I also thought I would be the only one who would have this surgery and possibly be a failure from it, but I was wrong, I had my surgery April 3rd, and Im down 61 pounds :)Just think positive , everything will be just fine.You will be in my thoughts and prayers..micheleklose@hotmail.com