Pam, PHX time 11:30 p.m. I want to get a "quickie in" and I am sure you will be up reading your posts. Please do not let your family issues upset you at this point in time. You hold your head up high and march (or be rolled in) lol into that surgical suite tomorrow with the biggest smile on your face, because, you are a special person and you have taken control of YOUR life. I will be with you in spirit in the a.m. as you embark on your surgical journey to the "other side." God Bless you and many, many prayers for a safe surgery and healthy recovery. Irene