Hi George :) It was so so nice talking with you today! Thank you for your kindest feedback about my profile here on ObesityHelp, and yes, I have been blessed with a wonderful hubby who's been with me through my journey thick (or should I say fat? ;) and thin! Keep up your GREAT work in your weight loss! You, too, are an inspiration!!! And yes, there truly is a "lid for every pot", and someday you will have that special someone in your life to read your beautiful poetry too! Sending lots of hugs and yes, I so hope we'll keep in touch! Caroline 19 weeks post-op/-86#