Dear Debbie....Congratulations on finding someone to help you. That was a terrible experience you had. This will be much better. You have a great attitude. We share a surgery date. I am 63 and 370+. The worst part is the waiting. May God Bless you with a very successful surgery, a quick and painless recovery and a wonderful new life. You deserve it. Enjoy your journey. With love and best wishes, Marilyn