Charmonfincher
Before and After / Incentive
Apr 09, 2009
I don't know about anyone else here, but the before and after pics give me soooo much incentive. They give me proof of results. I know alot of people don't keep up their web site after surgery, but I sure would like to thank those who have. I look at these pictures when I've seen a side view of myself in a public mirror, find another obstacle due to my size or health, when my appetite is voracious, when I feel numb and inconsequential, and even when I just like to share someone else's joy. These photos are truly joyful. I can see that so much comes with this weight loss. These just reinforce WHY I want to get surgery.
I had my final examination today and can now schedule my surgery. Whoooooo EEEEEE!!!! I still have to get a few more of my "funds" organized, but now I'm less than a month away from surgery. I think my family is happier than I am. The economy is truly horrible and my husband may lose his job if work doesn't pick up. I'm out of work until after surgery and resigned from my job a couple of months ago. But STILL, my husband is prompting me to continue even with the cost. I am so tired all of the time!!! I seem to get les and less accomplished, and some days I don't care that I haven't accomplished much. That definitely puts a strain on my husband, but he's hanging in there. He can't stand to see me so tired and weary.
I'm so proud that I chose Dr. DeWitt. His office staff is so helpful. Lori works very hard to schedule all of his patients and to keep us on the right track when we're confused. Kudos to the work she does!!! Hoooooray for my passing these final examinations!!! I am blessed. I owe everything to God above. I hope that everyone who needs surgery is able to get it.
Well, I've gotta get some sleep (more sleep) and Godspeed to all!!!
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I had my final examination today and can now schedule my surgery. Whoooooo EEEEEE!!!! I still have to get a few more of my "funds" organized, but now I'm less than a month away from surgery. I think my family is happier than I am. The economy is truly horrible and my husband may lose his job if work doesn't pick up. I'm out of work until after surgery and resigned from my job a couple of months ago. But STILL, my husband is prompting me to continue even with the cost. I am so tired all of the time!!! I seem to get les and less accomplished, and some days I don't care that I haven't accomplished much. That definitely puts a strain on my husband, but he's hanging in there. He can't stand to see me so tired and weary.
I'm so proud that I chose Dr. DeWitt. His office staff is so helpful. Lori works very hard to schedule all of his patients and to keep us on the right track when we're confused. Kudos to the work she does!!! Hoooooray for my passing these final examinations!!! I am blessed. I owe everything to God above. I hope that everyone who needs surgery is able to get it.
Well, I've gotta get some sleep (more sleep) and Godspeed to all!!!
Passed the Psyche Exam
Apr 06, 2009
I was finally scheduled for my psyche exam last week, and it was a pretty lengthy proceedure. Other people in the office taking the exam seemed to be upset that it took so long, but I was proud that my doctor wanted such extensive testing done for my overall welfare. I was pleased with the doctor that he paired me with, and felt as if there were an open-door there for me anytime I needed assistance. The basic reasons that I want the surgery are justified to me, but I have to admit that I've carried years of baggage from being overweight and my behaioral skills aren't pristine.
I have one other test scheduled this week...my EKG. It shouldn't take long, but once again, I have to travel to Birmingham from Montgomery to do this. My daughter is going with me so we can spend the day together, and that makes this last hurdle an enjoyable one. We had another yard sale this past weekend. We did this once more because our neighborhood was hosting another yard sale. We wanted to participate for our neighbor's sake. This one was more fun than the last, but not without its drama. My father-in-law's girlfriend's car got banged up by a hit-and-run driver. Augh!! Before this happened, we were having a great time with them there.
I've been really tired over the past couple of days. My feet have been swelling alot. Today they are better, but not without much rest. Sunday was our wedding anniversary, and I slept until noon and then went out for a wonderful meal at The Olive Garden with my husband. We had great conversation and as usual lots of laughs together. I really am blessed.
I asked the psychiatrist when I saw her if I would change very much after surgery. People that I know have worried that I might get "the big head" and change. My husband has worried that I might throw him over for a new husband. I realize that people have fears just like I do, but the psychiatrist said that people who "got a big head" usually had one before surgery, and to her knowledge and observation that personalities do not change much. She said she didn't think I had anything to worry about. If anything, this may help my confidence relating to personal appearance, but that's not a hinderance, but a healthier attitude. Cool. I can live with that.
Godspeed!
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I have one other test scheduled this week...my EKG. It shouldn't take long, but once again, I have to travel to Birmingham from Montgomery to do this. My daughter is going with me so we can spend the day together, and that makes this last hurdle an enjoyable one. We had another yard sale this past weekend. We did this once more because our neighborhood was hosting another yard sale. We wanted to participate for our neighbor's sake. This one was more fun than the last, but not without its drama. My father-in-law's girlfriend's car got banged up by a hit-and-run driver. Augh!! Before this happened, we were having a great time with them there.
I've been really tired over the past couple of days. My feet have been swelling alot. Today they are better, but not without much rest. Sunday was our wedding anniversary, and I slept until noon and then went out for a wonderful meal at The Olive Garden with my husband. We had great conversation and as usual lots of laughs together. I really am blessed.
I asked the psychiatrist when I saw her if I would change very much after surgery. People that I know have worried that I might get "the big head" and change. My husband has worried that I might throw him over for a new husband. I realize that people have fears just like I do, but the psychiatrist said that people who "got a big head" usually had one before surgery, and to her knowledge and observation that personalities do not change much. She said she didn't think I had anything to worry about. If anything, this may help my confidence relating to personal appearance, but that's not a hinderance, but a healthier attitude. Cool. I can live with that.
Godspeed!
After a Busy Weekend
Mar 24, 2009
Well, I've been running from diabetes medication for almost a year now. My labs came back last week and my A1C was alot worse than it's ever been. I attribute the high marks to two of the three months. I resigned from my job approx 1 month ago and when I did, I lost 10 lbs. I had been really stressed and overworked. I've scheduled an appt with my doctor and will once again beg off of the medication hoping that since I'm closer to being scheduled for lap band that he'll allow me to go without medication if I continue to work on my diet.
We had a busy weekend. We had a yard sale on Saturday (all day) and then ran all day Sunday picking up things and helping relatives with their projects. My husband was extremely worried because I slept most of Monday. When he got home we went to pick up our new "Golds Gym". It was a used gym for a GREAT price, but it's new to us. We are also getting a pool to go in the backyard (used stand-up pool) so I can exercise in the water. We're ALSO purchasing a George Foreman grill. I'm excited about all of these things...lifestyle changes!!!
I have STILL not been scheduled for my psyche appt. That worries me, but I'm sure they'll schedule me in due time. I'm trying to control my diet and it's not easy. My husband has been very supportive and so has my daughter. They will both start an exercise program. We're going to attempt a healthy "household".
Godspeed!
Charmon
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We had a busy weekend. We had a yard sale on Saturday (all day) and then ran all day Sunday picking up things and helping relatives with their projects. My husband was extremely worried because I slept most of Monday. When he got home we went to pick up our new "Golds Gym". It was a used gym for a GREAT price, but it's new to us. We are also getting a pool to go in the backyard (used stand-up pool) so I can exercise in the water. We're ALSO purchasing a George Foreman grill. I'm excited about all of these things...lifestyle changes!!!
I have STILL not been scheduled for my psyche appt. That worries me, but I'm sure they'll schedule me in due time. I'm trying to control my diet and it's not easy. My husband has been very supportive and so has my daughter. They will both start an exercise program. We're going to attempt a healthy "household".
Godspeed!
Charmon
Pictures.....
Mar 19, 2009
Geez.... I was trying to pick out a pic for my profile and we have sooooo many pictures!! I really hate looking at the progressive weight gain and can remember the times I tried really hard to lose weight...to only gain it back in triple. I remember thinking when I went to my son's bootcamp that I was the fattest I'd ever get. I was upset that my clothes were fitting tighter and that I really had to work at getting the stockings on for his graduation day....which meant I had to go up in plus size again and there was only one size left to purchase in my favorite stockings. Years ago I exceeded the plain old queen size.
I get aggitated when I travel or have to dress up for something. At one time, I would go to the store if I didn't like what I had and buy something "bigger" so I would feel comfortable. I can't do that anymore. When I go to the store I have to try on everything to make sure it's big enough and I almost can't find "big enough". My husband has conformed to my weight problems and I feel humiliated that he's had to do that. He's so sweet and I confuse him to death sometimes because he wants me to be happy and can't figure out how to do it. He's the one that would suggest I go shopping to get something "else" to wear and knew this would appease me when I got agitated. He's even gone into stores picking through the racks for me to "help". Of course, sometimes this would just agitate me further
I know that I am a wonderful person most days, but there's not an hour that goes by that I don't ponder my weight. My ankles swell, I'm diabetic and have trouble staying awake, I cannot hold up for much physical exertion, and I just don't feel like I'm fun anymore. I'm not....emotionally I'm drained. By the time my husband gets home in the afternoon, he never knows what my mood or physical condition will be. We still plan fishing trips on the boat, yard sales, family get-togethers, but sometimes I wish I could just stay at home to avoid finding more things I cannot do. When I do something "fun", I'm down for a couple of days afterward because I'm swollen and sore.
On the bright side, I went to my nutrition class this week and it was nice being in the room with people who have the same problem or who have had the same problem. It sinks in...the huge change in diet and my life that will occurr after lap band surgery. I go over the nutritional information just to make sure "I get it". There's no turning back for me. The rewards way outweigh the alternative. I know this from the stories that have been shared with me. Honestly, I'm looking forward to being able to exercise more once I begin losing weight...do you know what the weight capacity is on my treadmill????
I'm waiting to be scheduled for my psyche examination. I'm sure they're going to call me soon for that. Anywhoo...I feel like I'm at the threshold of a new beginning, but I'd like to "take in" what I need to and this web page is excellent!!!!
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I get aggitated when I travel or have to dress up for something. At one time, I would go to the store if I didn't like what I had and buy something "bigger" so I would feel comfortable. I can't do that anymore. When I go to the store I have to try on everything to make sure it's big enough and I almost can't find "big enough". My husband has conformed to my weight problems and I feel humiliated that he's had to do that. He's so sweet and I confuse him to death sometimes because he wants me to be happy and can't figure out how to do it. He's the one that would suggest I go shopping to get something "else" to wear and knew this would appease me when I got agitated. He's even gone into stores picking through the racks for me to "help". Of course, sometimes this would just agitate me further
I know that I am a wonderful person most days, but there's not an hour that goes by that I don't ponder my weight. My ankles swell, I'm diabetic and have trouble staying awake, I cannot hold up for much physical exertion, and I just don't feel like I'm fun anymore. I'm not....emotionally I'm drained. By the time my husband gets home in the afternoon, he never knows what my mood or physical condition will be. We still plan fishing trips on the boat, yard sales, family get-togethers, but sometimes I wish I could just stay at home to avoid finding more things I cannot do. When I do something "fun", I'm down for a couple of days afterward because I'm swollen and sore.
On the bright side, I went to my nutrition class this week and it was nice being in the room with people who have the same problem or who have had the same problem. It sinks in...the huge change in diet and my life that will occurr after lap band surgery. I go over the nutritional information just to make sure "I get it". There's no turning back for me. The rewards way outweigh the alternative. I know this from the stories that have been shared with me. Honestly, I'm looking forward to being able to exercise more once I begin losing weight...do you know what the weight capacity is on my treadmill????
I'm waiting to be scheduled for my psyche examination. I'm sure they're going to call me soon for that. Anywhoo...I feel like I'm at the threshold of a new beginning, but I'd like to "take in" what I need to and this web page is excellent!!!!
