well this is not dani and not her angel (tonia)but this is her hubby.well everything went well as you have seen by the updates from tonia.i think she was motivated to stay ahead of a special friend (cindy)who had there surgery the same day.for all the husbands out there i won't lie to ya and say it's easy because it's not but i'm sure all the stress and everything will be worth it.dani had a SUGAR FREE popsicle today even if it was only maybe 1 bite,then our 6 year old polished it off.tonight was the first night we actually sat down to eat supper together since her surgery.the boys felt really awkward when they were having bbq chicken from the grill and fries plus salads and i made dani pudding,jello,and broth.i did most of the shopping before but i can tell ya it's definitely different when buying things and i have to look for sugar free things and 1 less person to fix dinner for.well the last thing is for all the special people who have been there for my wife during the stressful time she was going through.there are just to many people out there to list everyone but you know who you are.i would like to thank everyone for the support that you have given my wife and my family through this experience.some of you just from the few kind words and msg's,to her coworkers,and to my coworkers(you know who you are also)i told dani that now is when the true friends show up.well folks i have to do the chores since the woman of the house is under the weather.thnx to everyone tim!!!!!!!!!!!one other thing is that i would like to tell my wife i'm proud of her for having the courage to go through this to better herself and spend many more years with your family.143