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donnaa62 22 years, 7 months ago

Stacy, I can totally understand where you are standing.. You have to have a life to.. outside the family.. just give it to him straight and let him deal with it.. I know it is easy for me to say but you need outside interest.. I am 60 y/0 and I am finally getting where I can get back to being a person.. The person God meant me to be.. Hang in there gal.. it may not get easier quickly but God will be with you.. Hugs from one wls to another

cinthygrady 22 years, 7 months ago

Stacy, I'm sorry you're going through a rough time right now. I have a husband who is feeling the same way. I have lost 72 pounds and have about 90 more to go, and he's already feeling jealous. He thinks I'm going to leave him when I get thinner. I told him he's making me feel like I have to defend myself for something that's never going to happen. Have you tried counseling? We went for a while, until our finances started to dwindle, and things are better. Please let me know how you are doing. I am concerned about your (since we're both going through the same thing). I wish you the best.

Kate G. 22 years, 8 months ago

Stacy, I'm wondering if the weeks of diarrhea are affecting your electrolytes. I've always been told (even before WLS) to get diarrhea checked out if it lasts more than a couple days. I think you should check in with your doc and perhaps get some blood work. (Such a mama hen here, sorry!)

Kate G. 22 years, 10 months ago

Stacy, I wanted to thank you for your post on the board about how we can impact others when we least expect it. You always make such an effort to help others and it warms my heart to be a part of the same board as you. By the way, you are totally right. On an parenting after infertility board I used to post to, a woman had the same terrifying experience I did with not knowing if the pregnancy was a blighted ovum for a period of a couple weeks. Our experiences were identical and I shared mine with her (my daughter was born from mine). Anyway, we emailed several times a day and it was such a privilege to share her experience with her. She named her daughter after me, which was incredible. I cried when she emailed me. :)

April G. 22 years, 10 months ago

CONGRATS Stacy, on being asked to be in an article. You deserve it YOU LOOK GREAT!!!! Take care and good luck. RNY 9/02 213/130.

Kathy H. 22 years, 11 months ago

Dear Stacy, Just had to write and tell you that you look Maaaaaaaaaavelous! I am new to the Obesity.com site and am just beginning the journey; your success is very encouraging to people like me. Keep up the good work! Kathy

jjtheba 22 years, 11 months ago

Dear Stacy, You look fabulous and I know the feeling of not realizing it is me in the mirror. Isn't it wonderful to be normal? May God continue to bless us both. Hugs Janice

S A. 22 years, 11 months ago

Stacy.....well I hate to bust your bubble, but I think you looked better before WLS. LMAO! Just joking!! WOW! OMG! You dont even look like the same person. YOU LOOK FABULOUS!!! I am sooooooooooooo impressed!! I am having surgery June 2nd. I am praying that my surgery will be a success like you was! WAY TO GO!!! You should be VERY proud of yourself!

Karen97869 22 years, 11 months ago

~~ STACY ~~ OH MY GOSH!!! You look absolutely fantastic!!! Sooooooo young, so fresh, so hot! You GO girl! Congrats to you - you are a walking WLS SUCCESS STORY!!! Love, Hugs and Blessings to you! †

babybear67 22 years, 11 months ago

Stacy-You look MARVELOUS!!!!!!!!!!!, and you are now a skinny minny. I hope I have your kind of success. Godspeed Maureen in TX