Hi Lisa,
I wish you the best of luck as you begin your journey. I live in Glendale, CA --- not too far from you. So, if you need to contact someone, please send me an email. I am about 4 1/2 months post-op from Lap RNY and have lost 95 lbs. Life is better post-op. That's for sure. Keep a happy attitude and follow your surgeon's recommendations - even if others do not.