Paul S.

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I have my surgery scheduled for 11/29/06 and my wife still cannot accept the fact that I am having it done. She has done everything within her power to try to stop it. She has even gone as far as to try to cancel my health insurance. She says that if I give her 6 more months of diet she will be behind me 100% if I choose to still have the surgery. I don't believe her because she has done nothing but lie to me up to this point about anything to do with this entire process. 8 months ago when I started the program she promised to support me and go to appointments and meetings with me, She never went to one. She said that she would never try to cancel my health insurance, She did. She said that she would never give me the ultimatem (spelling) that if I have the surgery she is leaving me, She has. And now she wants 6 more months, She had eight months already and choose to do nothing with it. I think that given the chance now that she would cancel my insurance as soon as it is possible in Jan. She has done nothing but fight with me for the last 2 months straight. She brings me articles to read about people who have died from this surgery, I know the risks. She made me pick out everything that I want for my wake and funeral. She picked out a picture for my obituary. She says that she will leave me if I have it done. One night when I could not take anymore I took my son and went to stay with my mother for the night. She called late at night and asked how to work my gun. I went down my house and found that she had somehow got 2 rounds throught the chamber. When I took the gun off her she ran out to her car and pulled down the driveway. I went out to get into my car to go back to my mothers and she came flying up the driveway and tried to hit me with her car. When I jumped behind my car she started to go at my car. I came out and told her to go ahead and hit me. She went flying down the drive way out into the road and then squeeling down the road. I got into my car and started to leave but she came back and blocked the bottom of the driveway. I told her that I was going to call the Police and took out my cell phone. I called my mother because she was worried because she knew that when I left I was going to get my gun away from my wife. My wife must have thought that I really called the police because she moved the car and let me out. This is just some of the crazyness that I have been enduring for the last 2 months.