Michelle, Just read your post about your family...sheeesh, arent our loved ones lovely sometimes? Just exercise, exercise, exercise, As young as you are your skin is probably pretty elastic. My sister lost about 100lbs around your age and looks terrific. She did end up getting a tummy tuck...BUT, her tiny tummy bothered her, it was not really noticeable. I never thought she really needed one. But it made her feel better about herself and the way her clothes fit, so it was the right thing to do. Try not to let them bother you, ( I know wayyyy easier said than done)... I bet your are going to LOOK and feel terrific!! Happy Holidays :o)