Hi Kisha,
I just wanted to wish you well, I had this a RNY in February and like you am african-american. I wish you well and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I was in the city so I could be your angel but alas, I am in Ithaca (nowheresville, usa). Never-the-less, I am sure you will do fine...and don't worry about the sweets, you can still sneak a piece every once in awhile...just a really small one! This surgery was a Godsend for me and I am sure it will be for you as well. Keep your head up girl...you will do fine.