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Shelley Billings 22 years, 7 months ago

Wow Roger...I'm really sorry. I think some of the surgeons have lost all empathy. If they had them to begin with. Is there time to check out a new surgeon? Either way.....you will have it done and be so happy. Remember, everything happens for a reason! Good luck to you!

Kate G. 22 years, 7 months ago

I wanted to say how sorry I am that you are facing postponement of your surgery. Feeling devastated is to be expected and I'd be surprised if you didn't react that way. It sounds as though you really want the procedure lap and that's a valid consideration. I had the choice of waiting months more to have it lap or having it done open during a period of time when my husband would be able to care for me with his schedule. I decided on doing it THEN with open surgery. I'm not suggesting you do this by any stretch. I felt that an added couple weeks of recovery was an acceptable trade-off to get the surgery done earlier and at the right time for my family. Long story short here - please take care and know that we're all rooting for you - even if it is January before you can do this.

janet B. 22 years, 8 months ago

I read your post tonite and felt like I had to respond. I am almost 10 months out and I remember the week before surgery I started to really get nervous--but, I knew that there was no way I could take the time to try to loose all the necessary weight to keep me alive and living and to keep it off to start my life over. The big problem has always been keeping the weight off and with our mind set it seems to be the way of things. Having this surgery teaches you a lot and makes it so much easier to get into the position of having normal eating habits. I think you really do learn to eat to live instead of living to eat, mostly because you find other things to do other than eat. I am certainly not saying that you won't stray back to old habits, but it is so much easier to straighten yourself out when you are a looser instead of a gainer. All the best to you and go for the gusto cause the rewards are GREAT!!!

Naes Wls J. 22 years, 8 months ago

<b>I SAID A PRAYER FOR YOU TODAY~*~ I said a prayer for you today And know God must have heard- I felt the answer in my heart Although He spoke no word I didn't ask for wealth or fame, I knew you wouldn't mind, I asked Him to send treasures Of a far more lasting kind, I asked that He'd be near you At the start of each new day, To grant you health and blessings And friends to share your way. I asked for happiness for you In all things great and small, But it was for His loving care I prayed the most of all.**Hugs**</b>

SouthernIllinoisMom 22 years, 10 months ago

Hello Roger,In regards to your request 6-25 12:51 ....check the anniveries page here at this site, then you can Email individuals your questions some respond some don't, but you can find some who are 4,5,10, years out. I too am concerned about long term..... looks like a lifestyle..... it is possible to regain even after surgery. Keep checking this site, I find it a useful tool Pennie:~)

jlewisjr 22 years, 10 months ago

Roger: Thank you for your encouraging words. I'm just concentrating on getting my insurance approval, my surgery date and begining my new lease on life. Best of everything to you on your journey. Jesse

Michelle H. 22 years, 11 months ago

Roger, I wouldn't stress too much about what to eat post-op. I certainly wouldn't sample anything pre-op. I found my taste buds changed a little post-op. I wouldn't have liked the protein shakes pre-op, but now post-op I find them quite yummie. I did slimfast the first few weeks post-op but I did not know about Real Meals at that time which would have been a healthier alternative. Now, 1 year post-op I have bid farewell to meal replacement shakes. I eat small well balanced meals. I crave things that are good for me. This is certainly a forced lifestyle change and I love it! Best wishes on a healthier you!

Karen Wyatt 22 years, 11 months ago

Hi Roger, For the first 10 days I was on a liquid diet.. which consisted of sugar free jello, sugar free popcicles, and chicken broth... after that ususally every doctor has their own diet.. but I started with cottage cheese, refried beans, and or poached egg... only one at a time for a meal... and then you gradually start introducing things into your new stomache... sugar free fat free dannon yogurt is good also... but you should be checking with your doctor for a list... good luck.. take care..

L. Brown 22 years, 11 months ago

Roger, well, I'm always one who trusts my own instincts, especially on something as important as this. Just for information though, being a male or a female really has no bearing on this particular surgery, as anatomically, we are the same in this area. The stomach and intestines are laid out exactly the same, no matter which sex. But, if you are feeling uncomfortable with the surgeon's experience, you should check out other surgeons, and make a decision based on your level of comfort with their experience. Good luck to you.

donnaa62 22 years, 11 months ago

Roger no advice for you sorry, but want to say may this journey bring you greater health and healing.. God is so good and I pray that he watches over you and brings you through to the other side without harm... Continue to look up when all you want to do is give up .. He will be there for you for he said I will never leave you nor forsake you.. Hugs