Seems people are getting you and your cousin confused. Teresa, I am sorry to hear about your cousin Melissa's passing. I am sorry for the tremendous losses you have had in your life. I hope the loss of weight helps you pick up the pieces and focus on your future for you and your child. I could not imagin losing a child. That is just so heart wrenching, now you have 3 people in heaven that will be looking down and guiding your daily paths.