Sandra, my sister did the same thing before my surgery,(see my profile August8) and I can remember how upset it made me too. Jeremiah 29:11 became one of my favorite verses during those pre op days> For I know the plans I have for you...plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. And this one too >Psalm 56:3 - When I am afraid, I will trust in you. That sister bond can be overwhelming sometimes, can't it? But you hang in there, cause theres lots of us here to support you. Praying that God gives you strength and peace in the days to come.