Honey,
I know that your news today was very disturbing and that it is sometimes difficult to understand the proverbial "Why Me?". There is never a real good answer to that question, so the question must become, "What do I do now?". You did the first thing, which was tell me. Now, the question becomes "What do WE do now?". You will not be alone through this situation. We will both go through it together, forever. Don't be discouraged, look to me, after you have looked in yourself for guidance and comfort. You must be happy with who you are and the circumstances of your life, before anything I say or do will be comforting. But, you can trust me, when I say that you will not go through anything alone.
Love,
Jim