Stacy, Congratulations on your weight loss. You should be proud of yourself. It took alot of hard work and you deserve some recognition for it. However, male ago being what it is....Make a real effort to reassure your husband and let him know you love him. Try that for awhile and see if that helps. It may be that you need a counselor. A good marriage requires maintenance just like a good car does. They don't just happen you have to work at it. Don't mean to sound like a soap box, just want to encourage....Leslie E.