Renee, I read your post about telling your sweet daughter about your surgery and I cried right along with you. My 12 year old daughter came in the room and said what's wrong momma? I read her your post, and she said well I thought someting was wrong! They try so hard, but they just don't understand the seriosness of this, and the emotional impact on us and our funny hormones. Well, I went through very similar emotions before my surgery on 7-16, and I know where you are coming from. I've had a few complications, but I am very fortunate to have made the decision to have this surgery. It's the best. Congratulations, and good luck on your upcoming date.