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Tammy 'Buckley McCool 22 years, 2 months ago

HI I wanted to thankyou all for all the emails and support and advice I have recieved I have not cancelled the surgery yet, and yes I still do want to be healthy, like I said the problem is not working for 4 to 6 weeks because I will have Open Rny therefor no income,I am a order puller in shipping so its a very active Job alot of walking and bending and boxing racks of clothing, it wont be easy to go back after 2 weeks after surgery.. I have no family in the state of Texas and noone to ask for help, funny how when someone gets married we excluded ourselves from outside friends people who was not in the family,not my choice, and all my friends I had have since moved on.......I am still trying to figure out what I am going to do Thanks again for all the emails and advice

babybear67 22 years, 2 months ago

Hello Tammy--sending many prayers and (((((hugs))))))) during such a trying time. I know it is hard but hang in there everything will work out. Take care and Godspeed. Maureen

MommaAngel 22 years, 2 months ago

HI TAMMY My heart goes out to you sweetie at a time you were looking forward to starting a new healthy life style. I know its hard on you but somehow good will come out of this even when at this time it don,t look like it.I know this because I too had a husband walk out on me with four children. I never worked I too didn,t know how things would be better. I am now married to a wonderful man that loves me.I never thought I would be thankful to the women that broke up my home but I am.I would not be as happy today if I hadn,t gone through the ruff time.I will be praying for you sweetie that you will make the best choice you can with your life.LORD BLESS

bethlaf 22 years, 2 months ago

Tammy HUGS!!!, i am so sorry to hear this, having just went through a divorce myself, and am still pre surgery, i understand what youre going through , i know its hard, but, im not so sure you should cancel , maybe think it through , if youve been married 14 years, even without children , youre entitled and most likely could get , through court , alimony/support, maintanence, whatever your state calls it , please, you have been waiting so long for surgery, i know its overwhelming, but , think honey, how good would you feel walking into court 100 lbs lighter?? telling him, ha, i dotn need you ... please, if you want serious help, email me , i just did my whole divorce pro se, no attorneys, and no it wasnt all sweet, but , i still did it , and i won EAXACTLY what i wanted, i have full custody of our child and support for me , and for her ... and no we werent that well off either e mail me , please, i wish you the best !!!!

Claire B. 22 years, 2 months ago

Hi Tammy, I am sorry about what you are going through. Hang in there. I will pray for you.

Tammy 'Buckley McCool 22 years, 2 months ago

3/15/03 I am Cancelling the surgery less than 3 weeks away, I have been put in a postion that Divorce will be Filed on Friday , even though I can still go ahead with surgery , I am on his insurance and he said he would not cancel me, but how can I recover for 4 to 6 weeks with no income and trying to find me a place to stay to recover and live, I have a Job but like I said I only started that a little over a month ago, so I would be on leave of absent with out pay ...now I wish I had made my profile without my last name , I bet my soon to be x sisterinlaw is happy dancing now .....sorry upset and dont know what to do I needed to vent been with him 14 years but we have natta, no kids nuthing

Tammy 'Buckley McCool 22 years, 2 months ago

Hello Everyone !!! couple of things here ...I got my vitalady.com samples in today and I had ordered a Detour Bar to try it ......OMG that bar is good, almost taste like a snickers but not quite it still has a slight protieny taste but is very good ..I am off to order me a 12 pack now now the update.....I MISSED 3 calls today ..guess who they was from SCHEDUALING!!!! I am kicking myself in the butt over that , so now I gotta call them Monday at break at work.I Am shooting for April 4th hopfully I will get that day....keep ya posted hugssssss yall

Tammy 'Buckley McCool 22 years, 2 months ago

well I called schedualing....cause if I did not call them we would be playing phone tag forever, my surgen has not sighned off yet on my case, so schedualing is holding a spot for me on the first week of April....not sure what day I am pushing for Friday 4th no later than April 11, because I need to be able to help my daughter when her baby is born on April 28, so that means I need to be over halfway recovered wish me luck

Deena L. Story 22 years, 2 months ago

Good for you girl. Sounds like you're long wait is finally paying off. Good luck to you! Deena P.S. I'm a shorty too! Only 4'10. Do you feel tall now!?!?

Tammy 'Buckley McCool 22 years, 2 months ago

ok I am all excited of being cleared and approved and my surgen calling me today, now I haven't Talked to Dr Leverton since my consult Jan 27, so when she called me today I was surprised all I am doing now is waiting for schedulaing to call me and give me my date.......and I am excited ???? is this normal ???? am I normal ? lol.........should I be freaking out now ?? I think I am ready , because I feel like I am going to be in the best surgens hands that I choose...maybe thats why I am not flipping out ....you tell me lol